Rites of Passage

Many experiences mark a transformation from one phase of life to another: A wedding, the birth or adoption of a child, bridging into youth or young adulthood, or transitioning into an authentic identity or claiming an affirming name...As well as divorce and separation, death, imprisonment, and transitioning into long-term care.

Each transition holds sacred potential for inner transformation, deep joy, and healing. Each transition is as unique as the people involved. I craft meaningful rites of passage that tap into the deepest needs and possibilities embedded in these powerful moments of life transition.

Listening to exchange of vows while I officiate wedding
Happy couple dancing down the isle after I married them
Me and Rev Emma Chattin, Executive Director of the Transgender Education Association, receiving an award for play group I established which included affirming rituals for children and their families for various milestones.

Me and the Rev Emma Chattin, Executive Director of the Transgender Education Association, receiving an award for establishing a play group for gender expansive children and their families, which included affirming rituals for children and their families for varied gender identity affirming milestones.

Carrying sign with leader of "True Accotink Colors" during Celebratory ritual installing welcoming sign at Accotink UU Church

Celebratory ritual installing welcoming sign at Accotink UU Church

Lit UU chalice
Bowl of stones, as used in memorial service

Bowl of stones, as used in a memorial service.

Memorial garden at Accotink UU Church in Burke, VA

Memorial Garden at Accotink UU Church in Burke, VA